Why do we hoard Forgiveness?
- Because we don't believe the gospel - meaning we don't truly believe the sacrifice that God made with his only son who died on the cross for our own forgiveness.
- We don't trust God
- We want power and control
- We are afraid to take the next first step.
Forgiveness is not:
- Forgetting
- Denying
- Waiting for an apology
- Ceasing to feel pain
- A one time event
Forgiveness is:
- A costly sacrifice
How to Forgive:
- Wish them well
- Pray for them
- Help them
- Do not retaliate even if they deserve it.
Forgiveness does not mean that you trust that person again.
Forgiveness doesn not mean accepting that person back into your life.
Matthew 6:9-13
Our Father who art in heaven,
Hallowed be thy name,
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil:
For thine is the kingdom,
and the power, and the glory,
forever. Amen.
“No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven!
Mathew 18:21 and 22
Then Peter came to him and asked, “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?”
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Dana, you are so right about forgiveness being so hard for us to understand and difficult to actually do. I am so sorry that you have been hurt, but so proud of you for turning to the scriptures for understanding and widsom to find the way to forgive and move on from here. I love you so very much, my sweet daughter.
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